Mistress and a wife that being cheated

Peringatan: Entri Kali ini takde kena mengena dengan aku lansung

Salam
Hari ni, aku rasa nak buat entry about two songs yang berkisarkan scenario yang sering dan selalu berlaku dalam segenap lapisan masyarakat.. Bukan nak menyentuh mana2 sensitiviti mana2 pihak, cuma nak lontarkan apa yang kita sendiri selalu lakukan..
Perempuan simpanan dan isteri yang diduakan..
Siapa yang bersalah dalam hal ni??
Masing2 salahkan satu sama lain..
Jujur, kalau aku dalam posisi yang sedemikian, aku pun akan lakukan benda yang sama..

Firstly, aku nak cerita lagu dari perspective isteri yang suaminya berlaku curang..
Aku belum kahwin tapi sebagai perempuan, terasa sakit perasaan diduakan tu.. kan?
Whoever's in New England by Reba McEntire menceritakan tentang isteri yang dapat tahu suaminya curang... Emosi lagu ni ditonjolkan dengan susunan penceritaan yang detail.. Ditambah dengan vokal Reba yang mantap..







source dari wikipedia,

The song was written in the voice of a Southern woman who believes her husband is having an affair during his business trips up north, but pledges that she will remain available to him when "whoever's in New England's through with you." [1] The song was taken from Barry Manilow's 70s Pop hit, "Weekend in New England". The 2007 Sugarland hit "Stay" was inspired by it, and tells the story from the perspective of the mistress.

aku kasi lirik bagi korang faham lagi mendalam

You spend an awful lot of time in Massachutes
Seems Like every other week you've got a meeting waiting there
Business must be booming or could something else
Be moving in the air up there

You say that its important for our future
An executive on his way up has got to play the part
Each time duty calls you got to give it all
You've got with all your heart

When whoever's in New England is through with you
And Boston finds better things to do
You know its not too late 'cause you'll always have a place to go
When whoever's in New Englands through with you

I hear the winter time up north can last forever
Ive been told its beautiful to see this time of year
They say the snow can blind you till the world you left behind
Just disappears I hear

I packed your bags and left them in the hallway
But before you leave again theres just one thing you outta know
When the icy winds blow through you remember that its me
Who feels the cold most of all

When whoever's in New England is through with you
And Boston finds better things to do
You know its not too late 'cause you'll always have a place to go
When whoever's in New Englands through with you

Next, aku nak cerita pasal lagu about a mistress.. Luahan hati seorang mistress.. Jatuh cinta dengan suami orang??? STAY by Sugarland.. Lagu ni memang best.. Seriously.. As a music lover, aku suka dengan apa yang aku dengar.. tapi kalau difikirkan balik pasal apa yang dia cuba sampaikan, aku sendiri tak sanggup nak hadapi.. Jadi orang ketiga dalam sesuatu perhubungan, risiko?? Berani mati... Aku sendiri benci berkongsi kasih.. Apatah lagi sanggup untuk jadi orang ketiga.. itu gila.. bagi aku.





ini aku petik dari wikipedia..

"Stay" is a ballad of infidelity, taking the perspective of the mistress of a man who is cheating on his wife. It begins with the mistress's insistence that the man stay with her — even if his wife should call and ask where he is — because she (the mistress) is "so tired of being lonely". Although the man tells her that he will leave his wife for her, she refuses to believe him, telling him that "it's too much pain to have to bear / To love a man you have to share".
In the third verse, the mistress then changes her mind; according to Nettles, she (the woman in the song) "has her own sense of redemption and realizes she deserves more than being with someone who will never be fully hers".^[2] This change is revealed in the final chorus:

Why don't you stay?

I'm up off my knees

I'm so tired of being lonely

You can't give me what I need

When she begs you not to go

There is one thing you should know

I don't have to live this way

Baby, why don't you stay?

so, korang faham kan apa yang aku cuba sampaikan??? tak faham jugak??? aku bagi lirik pula okay?

i been sittin' here staring
at the clock on the wall
and i been layin here praying
praying she won't call
it's just another call from home
and you'll get it and be gone
and i'll be crying
and i'll be beggin you baby
beg you not to leave
but i'll be left here waiting
with my heart on my sleeve
oh for the next time we'll be here
seems like a million years
and i think i'm dying

what do i have to do to make you see
she can't love you like me

why dont you stay
im down on my knees
im so tired of being lonely
don't i give you what you need
when she calls you will go
there is one thing you should know
we dont have to live this way
baby why dont you stay


you keep telling me baby
there will come a time
when you will leave her arms
and forever be in mine
but i don't think that's the truth
and i don't like being used
and i'm tired of waiting
it's too much pain to have to bear
to love a man you have to share

why dont you stay
im down on my knees
im so tired of being lonely
don't i give you what you need
when she calls you will go
there is one thing you should know
we dont have to live this way
baby why dont you stay

i can't take it any longer
but my will is getting stronger
and i think i know just what i have to do
i can't waste another minute
after all that i've put in it
i've given you my best
why does she get the best of you
so the next time you find
you wanna leave her bed for mine

why dont you stay
im up off my knees
im so tired of being lonely
you cant give me what i need
when she begs you not to go
there is one thing you should know
i dont have to live this way
baby why dont you stay

yeah yeah oh oh oh oha oh

Konklusinya disini... Siapa yang bersalah?? Suami, isteri atau si perempuan simpanan? Sama2 kita fikirkan..